Hey, I Can Do That!

Have you seen those videos of people shooting an AR-15, and they fall backwards or overreact?  Here’s the thing…it’s nothing like that.  The truth is, when used correctly, the AR-15 is fun and easy to shoot.  We regularly have classes of women, ages 30 and up, learning to shoot AR rifles and pistols without any issues.  In fact, they enjoy it.  It’s up to you to reject the false information that is spewed from the media, and to experience the truth for yourself.  Just watch the video below, and instead of being fearful or intimidated, you’ll be saying “Hey, I can do that!”  Our next AR-15 Defense Rifle Experience class is January 3rd.  You can register here… https://www.eventbrite.com/e/ar-15-defense-rifle-experience-i-tickets-52279813329

First Annual Annie Oakley Festival

Saturday, February 9 will be our First Annual Annie Oakley Festival!  The day will be spent at the range, introducing women to shooting sports through both demonstrations and hands-on experiences.  From pistols to shotguns, a lot of shooting disciplines will be shared.  We have guest vendors who will have information and give-aways.  Proceeds from this event will benefit local police organizations such as the youth explorers program and victims’ services.

We will share more details as the event draws near.  Mark your calendars now, and make plans to attend!  AnnieO2

AR-15: A Defense Rifle

AR-15: A Defense RifleWe have also added a training class for the DR-15…”The AR -15 Experience”…Click here to learn more and sign up!; Each month Dennis, one of our resident firearms experts and enthusiast will do a review of one of the many firearms available at Femme Fatale Arms and Training. This month Dennis’s review is of the Live Free Armory LF-15 “Defense Rifle”
Before I start this review I first must say that because of all the negative media coverage that the ”little black rifle that could“ gets, we here at Femme Fatale Arms and Training have decided that we will no longer refer to the Armalite rifle version 15 as simply AR, we have decided to instead use DR (defensive rifle) as this better represents one of the reasons a lot of us have purchased these rifles.
There are hundreds of DR-15 pattern rifles on the market today from just as many manufacturers. Everyone from Adams Arms to Wyndham Weaponry makes at least one model; some are great while others are just ok. We here in Central Florida have a few local manufacturers that make them as well. Again, some are fabulous while others are not even worthy of me mentioning their name. One of the best local companies that we carry is Live Free Armory just down the street in West Melbourne.
I have previously reviewed one of their DR pistols and it was my experience with them that led me to purchase one of their LF-15 rifles for my wife for our anniversary. Their base rifle comes with a 16 inch black nitride finished 1 in 7” twist barrel, one of their 15” inch full float Key Mod hand guards, a Rogers six position adjustable stock, a 30 round Magpul windowed magazine, and a fabric carrying case, all Cerakoted to your choice of a wide range of colors plus the option of a battle worn finish. The M-16 style bolt carrier group is also Nitrided for proven reliability.
Live Free Armory also offers a few upgrades to add to your rifle and I picked and tested a few of them. The first is the Ergo lower parts kit which features Ergo’s Beavertail pistol grip, no slip trigger pins and a trigger as smooth as any high dollar custom rifle on the market today. Another upgrade I decided on was the MRE muzzle break. This is, in my opinion, the best upgrade you can do to the rifle. The decrease in felt recoil plus the almost absence of muzzle rise over the birdcage flash hider is worth every bit of the extra $45 that it costs.
At the range, I fired both .223 and 5.56 ammo in several different grain weights at distances from 50 to 200 yards. The rifle worked perfectly with no malfunctions, all together I ran 400 rounds through it. I was extremely pleased with both the accuracy and operation of this awesome rifle.
So if you are in the market for an DR-15 come on down to Femme Fatale Arms and Training at 4270 Minton Rd Suite 107 Palm Bay Fl.(behind Long Doggers) and check one out for yourself. We have also added a training class for the DR-15…”The AR -15 Experience”…Click here to learn more and sign up!; so check out our website www.Ladiesgunstore.com for more details about us and all of our training opportunities!
As always thanks for reading

Tulsa Robbery Shooting: Heroic Women & Lessons Learned

By now many of you have seen the video of the Tulsa Oklahoma liquor store where 2 women (Mom & Daughter) fought off an attacker who was armed with a shotgun. What these women did was nothing short of heroic….and effective.  Their lives were on the line and they protected each other, effectively ending the situation and coming out safe.

As with any confrontation, regardless of the outcome, there are always lessons that we can learn to help us better prepare and handle situations that may occur in our own lives. You never know when you may find yourself in a life-threatening attack, so having a plan and being as prepared as possible is the best way to insure you survive. I would like to look at the many things these ladies did right, then explore a few other lessons that we can take away from what happened that may make a difference, should something like this happen to us.

  • First, these ladies both had firearms. Had they not, either or both may not be with us today. The guns were loaded and ready in the event of just such an incident.
  • When the robbery began, the daughter first tried to get her gun, but upon realizing she wasn’t able, made an effort to de-escalate the situation and took a passive stance until she could. This was smart as she did not appear to be a threat and he turned his attention to the register.
  • When opportunity arose, these ladies armed themselves. The daughter grabbed her Mom’s gun and handed it to her then later retrieved her own, while taking cover behind the register for safety. Support, teamwork, and action.
  • When the chance arose, the Mom took direct action and fired. After firing at the attacker, who ran out, the Mom proceeded to lock the door so he could not get back in, rather than following him out. Unfortunately the glass was shot out and he was able to return, but this was the right thing to do.
  • When the attacker tried to disarm the Mom, she made sure the barrel was pointed away from her daughter and continued to pull the trigger, insuring the gun was empty when the attacker finally wrestled this from her. During the struggle the daughter managed to wound the attacker trying to save her Mom. Had the Mom not had the sense to empty the gun, both could have been killed as he then attempted to shoot them with her gun.
  • …and these ladies fought. They fought hard, and they kept on fighting until they had a chance to get away, which they did. They did not resolve themselves to be victims and are alive today because of it.

These ladies performed admirably and bravely, took action, and saved their own lives.

Let’s step back through now and look at a few other things we can learn that may help with any such situation. This is in no way a criticism of the actions these ladies took as nobody will get it all right once a situation starts and the adrenaline hits us…they survived and that’s as right as it gets!

By way of additional actions to consider:

  • First, the guns were under the counter. Even though the daughter saw the attacker, she was unable to get to her gun right away. The best place to keep a firearm is on your person. When he turned his attention to the register she would have had the ability to take action quickly…and I have no doubt she would have.
  • When calling 911, once they are on the line and have the location, it is better to put the phone down (don’t hang up) so both hands can be used on the firearm for better control and accuracy. Always use 2 hands where possible.
  • When the robber came back he was still a threat and attacked the Mom. When a threat exists the most effective action is to fire on the threat repeatedly until the threat is neutralized. Very often people will fire then pause, or wait. The most effective strategy is to fire until the attacker is no longer capable of attacking. Notice how long this attack lasted…Despite being hit in the arm, leg, and chest, the attacker was capable of continuing. Repeated firing to center mass will end the attack as quickly as possible. Fire until they stop.
  • When firing at an attacker, it is also most effective to close the gap and move closer, increasing the chance of an accurate hit. Under the effects of adrenaline, you will miss more often than hit. Closer means more hits…The daughter did this a few times actually, and that is when her shots were most successful.
  • Training and practice: More is always better. The more you practice the better you will perform under pressure, the more accurate you will shoot, and your chances of coming out of such a violent confrontation will increase.


If you have any questions about this or anything else firearms or defensive shooting related, or are interested in training or the purchase of a firearm, please visit www.FemmeFataleArms.com or come see us at 4270 Minton Road, Palm Bay, Florida.




An Interesting “Pistol” for Home Defense

Live free Armory AR Pistol review

Let me start by saying that I normally prefer the rifle and carbine variants of the AR platform, but found myself intrigued at the pistol the folks over at Live Free armory in West Melbourne brought to the shop for us to sell. Of course, the first thing that I did was break down the pistol to clean, inspect, and oil it. What I found was a great surprise. The purple “Battle worn” cerakote finish was flawless and extends to the inside of both the upper and lower receivers. All internal components are top quality, the bolt carrier was polished to perfection then received a nitride finish. The barrel is ten and a half inches long, with one of Live Free’s custom muzzle brakes, and is made from 4150 chrome moly vanadium steel.

While I have not yet fired the pistol (hopefully next week) the boss has, and she says the action is smooth, recoil was very well managed by the buffer. She also says the trigger was light and crisp, just like one would want in an AR pistol. She aimed using a “Sig Romeo Three” and stated that the pistol was extremely accurate. I look forward to shooting it myself, if it shoots as well as it is made I think I will be a big fan of “Live Free Armory”. Updates to follow after I have a chance fire it

If you are in the market for an AR-15 you might want to come on down to Femme Fatale Firearms and training at 4270 Minton road in Palm bay and take a look at these gems from a local company. The rifles and pistols that they build are of top quality and are available in a wide range of colors. They offer AR-10 rifles in .308 and 6.5 Creedmoor, and AR-15 rifles and pistols in 5.56 NATO and 300 Blackout. We at Femme Fatale also carry most of the major manufacturers and can find the firearm to make you happy.

Thanks for reading



Yesterday I finally had a chance to get to the range with this pistol. Let me tell you I was very surprised at how well this gun shoots. Trigger is smooth crisp and clean. The muzzle break functions flawlessly and the accuracy is beyond what I imagined. When I first looked at this pistol I knew it was mechanically sound, but after firing it all I can say is wow. If you are in the market for an AR pistol you can’t go wrong with this one.




Shotguns for Home Defense

Many people currently use a shotgun for home defense.  The shotgun is a good choice, however as with any firearm, it is important to understand the weapon and how to use it properly.   There is a lot of mis-information out there regarding shotguns.  No other weapon has been given such a big reputation for stopping power and ease of use.  Some of it is true, but some of it is also incorrect and exaggerated.  Incorrectly using a shotgun you can miss your target and potentially cause personal injury.  I am hoping to provide some clarity and understanding so you can make an informed decision if you are considering a shotgun to protect your home.

First a little about “what is a shotgun”:  What makes a shotgun different from a typical handgun or rifle is what comes out of it.  Handguns and rifles fire a single bullet.  Shotguns fire many pellets at the same time held together by a plastic “shell”.  Pellets can be very small (these are used for bird hunting) or larger (used for deer hunting or self defense).  There is also what is called “slug”, which is a single bullet for a shotgun and only used for very specific purposes.  The bigger the pellets the more stopping power.


You will also hear about “gauge”.  This is basically telling you how big the “shell” is.  The bigger the shell the more pellets it holds.  The 3 most popular are 12 gauge, 20 gauge, and .410.  The difference is the 12 holds more pellets than the 20.  The .410 holds the least amount of pellets.  The more pellets of a certain size the shell can hold, the more stopping power.  Note: If you own a pistol that shoots shotgun shells like the “Judge”, it will shoot .410…more on that below.


9mm, .410, 20 gauge, 12 gauge                          12 gauge 00 buck (www.fishgame.com)          .410 00 buck   (www.alamoammo.com)

Why do people recommend shotguns? …The shotgun has great stopping power, which means if you were to shoot at an attacker with one, and hit them, it has a very high probability of stopping them by only shooting once…if the right ammunition (Shells) are used.  That part is true.

You will often hear “you don’t need to aim, just point and pull the trigger”, or worse “you only need to point it down the hall and shoot”…the assumption being made that the pellets will spread out in a group so wide that they will hit anything in front of you.  That part is not really true.

A typical self defense distance is around 20 feet in a home.  If you use self defense ammo (often called “buckshot” or “00 Buck”) the reality is the group of pellets will only spread out to about the size of the palm of your hand at 20 feet.  If you just point without aiming, there is still a high probability you will miss altogether.  If you use shells with small pellets (called “birdshot”), there are more pellets in the shell and they spread out further, but only a couple of inches more.  Still no bigger than your hand with fingers spread open at best…you can still miss.  If you are going to use a shotgun you still need to aim to be sure you hit what you need to.


21 feet, 00 Buck (M4Carbine.net)                                    15 Feet, 00 Buck (brainenos.com)

You will hear that shotguns “Kick”.  This is the recoil caused by the ammunition firing.  The same as when your pistol jumps when you pull the trigger.  This is very true.  You aim a shotgun by putting the back (Butt) against your shoulder and looking down the sights.  When you fire the shotgun the recoil causes it to push back…or Kick.  A shotgun shooting defensive shells (“buckshot”) kicks harder than most rifles, and if not held properly, will bruise and potentially injure your shoulder.  If you do not stand properly it can also cause you to fall backwards. If you use small pellets (“Birdshot”), it will kick less, but will have far less stopping power.  The smallest Birdshot can bounce off a water jug at the distance across a large living room.

The below video shows what can happen if you are not properly holding the shotgun.  This is completely avoidable with proper instruction:


When held and aimed properly, the shotgun can be easily managed.  This video not only shows the proper way to hold the gun but also shows how “birdshot” spreads at different distances:


The bottom line is this:  If you are going to use a shotgun for home defense, be sure you practice with it just like any gun.  Training will help you to shoot it effectively without hurting yourself.  If you choose a 20 gauge (fewer pellets) instead of a 12 gauge, it will have less recoil ( “Kick” ) and still have great stopping power.  If you use a .410 keep in mind it has very few pellets and you have to be very very close to have sufficient power to stop an attacker.  .410 shotguns are typically what parents who hunt will start their children off shooting when they are very young…and very often they shoot with it runs away rather than stopping.

That brings us to the Pistol type shotguns such as the “Judge”.  Because the barrel on this type of gun is very short, the pellets have a much lower speed, which means less stopping power.  They also spread out more at a short distance.  The recoil is also very noticeable.  If you are going to use this type of gun it will be important to be very close to your attacker to be effective, and you will still need to be able to effectively aim your gun.

                judge group                                                                                            .410, 00buck, 15 feet, from a” judge”  (www.federalpremium.com)

A shotgun can be a great self defense weapon, however it still has its limitations and can be hard to manage without proper training.  Always shoot the gun you shoot best and are willing to continuously practice and train with.

To learn more about Femme Fatale Arms & Training or to reach out to us for more information, visit our website: www.FemmeFataleArms.com




Shooting while Pregnant

When we are pregnant we are advised to avoid many hazardous activities that may injure the developing fetus.  We take extra care to give our babies the best and strongest start in life, making all the sacrifices necessary to keep our babies safe.  From the information I read in recent publications, I advise women who are pregnant or nursing to avoid shooting a firearm in addition to avoiding the area when others are shooting.

shooting while preg

There are a variety of chemicals released into the air including lead when a gun is fired.  The chemicals are quickly absorbed, exposing the unborn child to toxins unnecessarily.

Champion shooter and mother, Julie Golob, has written a well researched paper  “Shooting While Pregnant, a resource for expecting moms”. (click here to read more) Medical expert Fabrice Czarnecki, M.D. explains the “serious complications for both the fetus and the mother, including miscarriage” linked to shooting a firearm during pregnancy.

“I recommend that, during pregnancy, women not shoot firearms at all, unless in self-defense.” Fabrice Czarnecki, M.D.

If you feel yourself going into shooting withdrawl, you have the option of dry-fire and airsoft.  You can practice nearly every aspect of shooting without using live ammo.  This is a great time to practice clearing the house or shooting from behind a wall or other surface.  Be creative but be safe, soon you will have a little shooting partner to join you.
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